Make a schedule of events for your child, particularly on days with lots of transitions. Whether it’s a written schedule or one with pictures for younger children, they may feel calmer and safer knowing what is coming up. Discuss the schedule and provide complete information for each event. For example, let your child know which events will take place outside and which will be noisy or crowded. Sometimes just knowing what’s next can help children with extra needs feel less anxious.
Have a code word your child can use if he or she feels overwhelmed and needs a break. Honor the code word by removing your child from the stressful situation for a few moments, and discuss coping skills. Again, giving children some control during activities that may be overstimulating will reduce anxiety and enhance the fun.
Before you leave for Halloween parties, trick or treating, or other fun events, have a quick family meeting so that your whole family knows how long you plan to stay and how you expect them to behave. This will benefit typically developing children as well, since any child can get overwhelmed with the excitement of Halloween.
Children with significant sensory sensitives should practice wearing their costumes BEFORE an event. This will allow you to get rid of itchy tags or scratchy fabric ahead of time and help to prevent sensory meltdowns. Bring along a soft Halloween-themed outfit or other favorite outfit for your child to wear if he or she can no longer tolerate the costume.
If your children have food sensitives or allergies that prevent them from eating their candy, plan ahead to offer alternatives like toys or all-natural candy. If you aren’t sure what to offer your child, ask them! Most children will be glad to make a trade for something they really want.